Curvaliscious


My Story

Why Phoenix Rising?
(why I started this blog - before I became Curvaliscious)

A First Word - An Introduction to Phoenix Rising

The King of the Fuktards
(aka Mr. X)


Life with Mr. X

Control
(coming soon)

Emotional Abuse
(coming soon)

Physical Abuse
(coming soon)

Punishments
(coming soon)

Resources and Information

The Law

Children's Law Reform Act - An Important Amendment Concerning Custody and Visitation Rights

The Rights of the Custodial Parent to have Mobility with their Children

Limits Set on Joint Custody in Abusive Situations

Refusing Access and Contact

Restraining Orders, Peace Bonds and No Contact Orders

Stalking

Violet: The Law and Abused Women

Education

Breaking the Cycle of Violence - Children Exposed to Woman's Abuse

Creating a Safety Plan

Education Wife Assault

The Freda Center for Research on Violence Against Women and Children

Psychopathy**

The Psychopath: The Mask of Sanity

Discussion of Psychopathy Traits

Psychopaths In Sheep's Clothing

Key Symptoms of Psychopathy

Antisocial Personality, Sociopathy and Psychopathy

Bad Seed: The Fledgling Psychopath

Functional Families, Dysfunctional Brains

The Psychopath Next Door

Mask of Sanity
(the entire book in PDF format)

The Effects on Children

Wife Abuse: the Impact on Children

When Children Witness Domestic Violence

Children Witnessing Family Violence

UNICEF Canada - Behind Closed Doors: The Impact of Witnessing Domestic Violence on Children in Canada

Resources

Shelters and Assistance in Ontario



**Note that these links are here because I was provided with a document by my lawyer outlining what a psychopath (aka sociopath) is in point form. Reading it aloud in his office with several people that know Mr. X (both from the present and from the past), we unanimously agreed that he fits every single description on that list - the sole exception being that most psychopaths/sociopaths are sexually promiscuous. If he was so, I don't know about it. To my knowledge, he had a total of three relationships in his lifetime: a girl in high school, his ex wife and myself. He abused both myself and his ex wife (and his mother but thats another story). I am by no means accusing him of being a killer, but frankly, it makes me wonder what he was doing in the meantime.

It is also important to note that psychopaths and sociopaths are one in the same. Not all psychopaths are killers (in fact very few are given that there are some two million of them in the United States alone)... they are just people who are incapable of feeling the same emotions that normal people can. In fact, you come into contact with psychopaths probably almost every day of your life without even knowing it.
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